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Thursday August 28, 2008
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MySpace.com Minors Restricted?
I think it’s a pretty good move from MySpace. That way, there would be less profiles for online sexual predators to prey on. While it doesn’t provide a fool-proof plan (as you said, kids can easily change their age on MySpace), it’s a start. Parents need to wake up and stop demanding that everyone BUT them babysit their kids! However, what about all the twits that are oline looking for guys to flirt with, no one wants to go there huh? well, its happening. And will some of you stop using "textspeak", show some intelligence and TYPE words correctly. Kudos to the title heading "This Topic"!! Believe me people, these girls do exist. They lie about their age, dress far too provocitively and are out there soliciting older men. In the end this can ruin somebody's life completely. Now don't get me wrong, I too believe children should be protected from any kind of sicko who poses a threat to them, either online OR offline but lets go here with this person for a minute. What laws are out there protecting men from teens who are stalking the internet as well?? This kind of thing is happening every single day (without concenquences or repercussions) and can happen to ANYBODY using such sites as myspace, online dating, chats, etc. Bottom line, it all starts at home so know what your kids are doing. If us as parents aren't doing our job then who will, some law?? If you believe that then please open your eyes, turn on your listening ears and refer back to the top of this posting. I agree that u should wait till u r older but if you want to do it and think it's right then go ahead. All u have to do is be careful use and protection. Parents should also be cautioned by not only what the adults are doing, but what their children are doing on MySpace as well. Thirteen year olds are dressing like 20 year old hookers because they think that it is what is "in" now. If a parent is going to let them dress that way, then they should not only be taking into their hands the fate of the perverts out there, but the fact that their own child is part of the problem. But the inadequacy of the naive realistic and positivistic views competing with Kant to-day automatically forces the manner of putting the question in the direction in which Kant had started. That many sex offenders on my space is crazy. I am gald that my space is up to date with the registered sex offenders list Educate parents on what their kids are doing. Open dialogs with your kids about what they do and who they give information to on the internet. I am a MySpace user and it blows me away the types of personal information people divuldge online for the entire world to see. Most of the time it's the younger crowd. Or maybe a perv posing as the younger crowd. Who knows... but I think the power to change it starts with the users themselves. There have always been immature and vulnerable teens in the world and there are teens out there who are not saavy to the tricks and lures of sexual predators. There are also millions of parents out there who don't have a clue what their kids are doing online; well SHAME ON THEM... but why is that MySpace's fault and why should MySpace be forced into babysitting every user who is under the age of 18! There are far more teens who are truly savvy to this crap and who surf responsibly and safely than there are the opposite. No child should be victimized online; but lets face it, adolescents are curious about sex, they always have been and always will be. Every adult was once a teen and was once curious about sex. The internet can be a fantastic educational tool and wonderful entertainment, but it has a dark side too; it's just like the rest of the world, there is good and there is bad. If parents have no rules, boundaries, or expectations about the internet at home, their kids are going to approach the interet thinking they are safe while sitting in their own home, when in truth they've probably never been in more danger. Expect your kids to follow their adolescent curiosity online because they will! PARENTS NEED TO WAKE UP! When a parent allows their kids to have unsupervised access to the internet, they are giving them the keys to the biggest sexual predator playground ever known to mankind. I know parents can't keep watch 24/7, but I can almost guarantee that 90% of the kids out there who have been victimized online have internet in their bedrooms or access to it away from any adults eyes for long periods of time. Taking responsibiltiy at home is a much more "real" approach than creating a law that gives a false sense of security, allowing parents to stick their heads further into the sand. It really does absolutely nothing over the long haul to fix the real problem. It's a complex issue, but I think educating parents and their kids is a far better approach to this issue. Requiring community sites like MySpace to force limitations on access will only cause teens and predators to lie and cheat simply to find a way around it. Even worse, the twisted freaks will come up with more devious less detectible approaches. I know some teens may be very vulnerable to these freaks, but some of these politicians make generalizations about teens that make all teens out to be morons. That's simply not the case and it's not reality. There are more internet savvy teens in the world than all the politicians put together. I thank MySpace for tracking down the 7000 thousand perverts and giving them the boot. Though I am not sure how long the eviction will last, it's nice to know we at least pulled the plug temporarily. I also thank sites like SexLaws.org for doing their best to EDUCATE people on the real issues. Post new comment |
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One. Why does it seem as if the media and state legislature is saying that all teens act this way. There are smart people, smart people who do stupid things, ignorant people, naive people, and everyone else in between. They make it seem as if teen girls are being preyed upon. What about the ones that make myspaces to post half naked pictures of themselves or intentionally lie about their age to talk to older men.
Two. You can lie about your age on myspace so this plan is faulty and already has a thousand holes in it.
Three. The public websites about registered sex offenders and their myspaces were great ideas. Then again, they can lie about who they are too.