Got Teens? Got Problems?

Is your teen’s behavior driving you crazy? Is your teen sexually active? Are you struggling with a teen who’s disrespectful, defiant or obnoxious toward you? Do your kids fight constantly - even to the point of verbal or physical abuse?


Problem child?
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Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 02/26/2010 - 19:31.

I believe that teenagers should know when they are ready or not to have sex, the parent of the child is not the teen, they do not know truly how the teenager feels and how their body is changing. I believe all that the parent can do is teach the child how to prevent pregancies and diseases, how to be safe, and to teach the child to have sex only when they feel ready, not because they are being pressured by other kids at school or by their boyfriend or girlfriend.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 02/05/2010 - 10:59.

teens should be able to make their own decisions not their decisions made for them...

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 01/09/2010 - 22:08.

I disagree, being a teenager is all about experiencing new things and learning in general. Their bodies change so much but you cannot categorise teenagers as reckless children who have no idea about "morals". Sure, there are teens who "sleep around" but they are in the minority. Half-intelligent teenagers has the mental capacity to realise that they should use protection before having sex.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 12/15/2009 - 12:27.

You're clearly making a general statement that can not be applied to every teen in America. I can see your opinion; but that's just what it is, an opinion. As you keep saying "we", who exactly are you refering to? Everyone? I don't see how you, a single person could know what "we" all do, and how "we" all raise our chirldren.

Submitted by KC (not verified) on Fri, 08/28/2009 - 20:00.

This is obviously depending on each individual child, but who in the world decided that just because a teenager is having sex that they are out of control? Safe sex is practiced by many responsible and mature teens every day. Being underage and having sex does not by any means indicate promiscuity. I feel like these kinds of ads encourage overprotective parents to harass their kids and cripple them by taking away the advantage of experience. Raising an individual is by no means easy, and every kid grows at their own pace. But I think parents need to start recognizing the difference between when their kid is in trouble and when their kid is just growing up. When a teen insists on taking responsibility for certain privileges, sometimes a parent just needs to watch them fall flat on their face. THIS IS THE ONLY WAY TO LEARN.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 11/27/2009 - 07:13.

KC,

Mature and responsible teens do not practice any sex...much less safe sex.
News Flash: Unsafe sex and promiscuity are not synonymous. It only takes 1 unprotected act to catch an STD, or result in an unwanted pregnancy.
We indoctrinate our children to, "Just say no," to drugs; but with regard to sex we tell them, "Just be safe." See any irony in that?

With respect to a, "teen insists on taking responsibility for certain privileges,"...the key problem lies in your word, "insists." In a balanced home the teen does not, "insist," The teen basically complies although withsome give and take as independent privileges become gradually more extensive.
S/he asks and is either told yes or no. Simple as that.

Biggest problem in America today? Parents are too busy being their children's, "friend," and living vicarious lives through their children's over expanded repertoires of sports, activities, and entertainments to establish an authoritative style of child rearing. Thus far too many children have no true respect for authority figures, including teachers...who get to deal with them in batches...with all their little emergent personality traits, including (sadly) narcissism..which seems so much more pervasive today...

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